- Call or Text: 021 721 273
- BDH Business Hub: 4 Whetu Place, Rosedale
- info@aucklandcounsellingclinic.co.nz
PRE-MARRIAGE COUNSELLING
Start Strong, Stay Aligned, and Build a Relationship That Lasts
Marriage isn’t just about love — it’s about communication, values, expectations, and the ability to grow together over time. At Auckland Counselling Clinic, our pre-marriage counselling helps couples lay the groundwork for a strong, resilient, and deeply connected partnership. Whether you're recently engaged or already living together, this is your chance to prepare, align, and set your future up for success.
BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE ON A SOLID FOUNDATION
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- Clarify Expectations
- Deepen Intimacy
- Build Conflict Skills
- Explore Values
- Improve Communication
- Address Fears
- Strengthen Trust
- Navigate Differences
- Plan for Growth
- In-Person or Zoom
- Neutral & Safe
- Structured Support
Contact Us
- Phone 021 721 273
- Email info@aucklandcounsellingclinic.co.nz
It’s Not a Test — It’s an Investment in Each Other
Pre-marriage counselling isn’t about finding flaws or deciding whether you’re a “good match” — it’s about getting clear, intentional, and aligned before you step into lifelong commitment. Every couple has differences. Every relationship will face challenges. The difference is whether you’re equipped to handle them with understanding, communication, and respect.
At Auckland Counselling Clinic, we help you talk about the things that often get skipped in the excitement of engagement — money, family dynamics, roles, sex, faith, conflict styles, and long-term goals. These conversations aren’t always easy, but they are essential. When you start with clarity and openness, you create a foundation that can weather change and deepen connection over time.
Why Pre-Marriage Counselling Matters
Too often, couples only seek counselling once problems arise. But pre-marriage counselling is proactive — a way to prevent those patterns from becoming painful later. You’ll gain insights into how you and your partner operate emotionally, communicate under stress, and handle sensitive issues. This shared understanding builds trust and increases resilience.
By investing time in pre-marriage support, you're giving your relationship the advantage of emotional maturity, shared intention, and a plan for facing challenges together. It’s not about perfection — it’s about preparation. And when you’re prepared, love feels safer, deeper, and more sustainable.
What You Can Expect in Your Counselling Journey
Our pre-marriage sessions are guided, practical, and tailored to your relationship. We begin by understanding your unique story as a couple — what you love about each other, what your goals are, and where you’ve noticed tension or uncertainty. From there, we guide you through conversations and exercises designed to strengthen your bond and prepare you for what’s ahead.
We draw on evidence-based frameworks including the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), along with structured communication and values-alignment tools. Whether you’re navigating religious differences, blended family dynamics, career pressures, or simply want to feel more emotionally equipped, we’ll support you in building a clear, united vision for your marriage.
Why Choose Auckland Counselling Clinic
We believe that healthy marriages start with honest conversations. Our counsellors are trained to hold space for meaningful dialogue — even around sensitive or emotionally charged topics — with care, balance, and respect. We offer a neutral, welcoming environment where both partners feel heard and supported.
Whether this is your first marriage or a new beginning, our goal is to help you feel confident, prepared, and more connected than ever. With in-person or online sessions available, it’s easy to begin your marriage journey with intention and clarity. You’re not just planning a wedding — you’re building a life together. Let’s make it strong from the start.
Got Questions? We’ve Got You Covered.
We support people dealing with anxiety, stress, grief, relationship challenges, low self-worth, emotional overwhelm, ADHD, addiction, and more. Whatever you're going through, you don't have to face it alone — we’re here to help you find the way forward. Visit the Our Services page in the menu above to see a more thorough list of our services.
We support individuals and couples dealing with anxiety, stress, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, emotional burnout, self-worth, anger, addiction and more. You name it, we've helped people overcome it. Whatever you're facing, we're here to help you move forward.
Yes — we work with individuals, couples, and family groups. Whether you're navigating personal struggles, relationship concerns, or parenting stress, our counselling adapts to your situation.
Getting started is easy. Simply book online, choose your time, and we’ll take care of the rest. No referral or lengthy process needed — just one step to begin.
No referral is required. You can book with us directly — no GP note or paperwork needed.
You’ll meet with a counsellor in a safe, confidential space to explore what’s going on for you. You set the pace, and we guide with compassion and insight — no pressure, just support.
All prices are listed on our online booking form.
You can pay securely online via credit/debit card. Payment options are available at the time of booking.
Payment is made at the time of booking to secure your spot. If you have any questions, our team can help.
Usually same day. We keep our wait times low so you can access support when it matters.
We don’t offer counsellor selection by gender or individual preference. All of our counsellors are professionally trained, highly experienced, and equipped to support people from all walks of life — from age 7 to 100. You’ll be matched with a qualified member of our team who’s well-prepared to help with whatever you’re facing.
Yes — we offer secure video sessions via Zoom. It’s a flexible option that fits around your lifestyle.
Absolutely. Your sessions and personal details are 100% confidential and handled in accordance with strict privacy guidelines.
That’s okay — we understand. You’re welcome to reach out with questions before making a decision. There’s no pressure — just helpful info.
Yes. These are some of the most common reasons people come to us. We provide proven strategies, practical tools, and emotional support tailored to you.
Absolutely. Whether things feel tense, disconnected, or uncertain, counselling can help you and your partner communicate, reconnect, and move forward together.
Trusted by Thousands Across New Zealand
Focused on Results & Trust
Finally understanding myself changed everything. Focus, calm, and clarity — it’s like night and day.
No more guessing games. The process was smooth, fast, and I finally got real answers.
James P.
Software EngineerI spent years blaming myself. The assessment made me realise I wasn’t broken — just wired differently.
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HR ManagerQuick, professional, and life-changing. I wish I’d done this ten years ago.
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Freelance VideographerThe clarity gave my relationship a second chance. We both understand so much more now.
Elena R.
Marketing CoordinatorFrom burnout to balance. The tools and guidance have helped me feel like myself again.
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ArchitectMy son’s teachers finally saw what we were dealing with. This assessment changed his whole path.
Karla F.
Parent & Business OwnerI was misdiagnosed for years. This was the first time someone actually listened.
Brandon M.
Sales ConsultantThe support didn’t stop after the diagnosis. That’s what made all the difference.
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Registered NurseThe process was easy and gave me relief I didn’t know I needed. Everything just made sense.
